Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Email Received December 30, 2009



    Guess what?
    Gueeeees whaaaa-aaat!?!
    We've got two investigators with baptismal dates!!!
    Not even the ones we were expecting, either. This woman had been taught the lessons before, but had copped out just before baptism, saying she felt the missioneros had been putting too much pressure on her. We had taught her daughter (age 10) once before... I forget what. Anyway, the two of them were both at home for the holiday on Monday. We were planning on teaching about prayer, and the relationship between God and man. Instead, we ended up discussing a pamphlet I had left with them on a "whim". We essentially ended up teaching lesson 2 (plan of salvation) and explaining how the first principles and ordinances of the gospel fit into this. Towards the end, I was having an overwhelming feeling like I should ask them to be baptized. Of course, if it weren't for the visual aids Hermana was using, I wouldn't be able to follow the conversation. So as I begin looking for an opening, and trying to figure out how to parse the commitment, Hermana asks (pointing to the list of principles and ordinances) "How many of these have you done?"
    The daughter looks at the list, and struggling with her limited ability to read Spanish, acknowledges that she has faith and has repented. She then points to the third step, looks at her mom and says (in English) "Well, Mom, we haven't been baptized yet.”
    I had to keep myself from jumping up and down. We then very quietly handed them a calendar (even though we both could have exploded) and asked them when might be best for that. They were initially thinking end of February, but then (with no prompting from us at all) moved it back to the end of January!
    We ended the lesson, and got outside. Hermana looks at me briefly, and says, "What Just happened in there?" We restrained further comments till we got to the car, and just laughed and laughed.
    Hermana says we've been seeing miracles since I've come. Passive members are all of a sudden being active; we're teaching large groups of extended family, including children. We've knocked into two more likely investigators (and you know how profitable knocking usually is)  and have made major headway with others.
    Um, everything else has been shoved out the back of my head because of this awesomeness.
    Oh, we went to downtown Gilberts the other day. I think there was a grand total of 25 houses (Ignoring the large townhouse community that we couldn't even park in.) and I think we got them all. No Hispanics, but a couple referrals for the Elders.
    Got the gift card from David.
    Ah... I would ask that you refrain from sending chocolate until say, July. We have too much as it is.
    I hope y'all are working on your family mission plans. I know we're not exactly social butterflies, but every little reference helps.

Viendo milagros en este dia, por medio del Espiritu Santo: su hija,
Hermana Maren M Jones.


2nd letter postmarked 6 Nov 2009



Dear All,
    It is abundantly evident to me that I am an absolutely horrible letter writer, because last week’s letter is sitting on my shelf, addressed and stamped, but has not yet been sent.
    I would once again emphasize that Dearelder is the best service to contact me, and that I welcome letters from everyone, and would be pleased if you could inform friends and family as to its existence.
    All three strains of flu (A, B, Swine) are present on campus.  In fact, I just had a roommate come back from quarantine.  I myself have been ill a few times, (stomach flu, a cold and a cough,) but have not been judged ill enough to be quarantined.
    Because of the vindictiveness of the flu this year, all physical contact has been prohibited for the season.  No hugging, shaking hands, or even a friendly pat on the back.  The result is that we often end up waving our hands vaguely in the air in a combination of a wave and a handshake.
    My two teachers, Hno. Palmer and Hno. Millet, both have been working very hard on getting us to HIS (Habla su idioma; Speak your language.)  We are trying hard, but while I have a decent vocabulary, I am having difficulty keeping my conjugations straight.  The preterit and imperfect I find particularly challenging…not to their contents, but rather as to which is which.  I have a yellow cheat sheet, which Hermana loathes, but which I find useful to remind me which irregulars conjugate irregularly in which cases, and in which cases.  I would love to spend more time with the computer program they have for us (called TALL) but the labs tend to be full and noisy.  Hermana needs quiet to study, and does not like TALL anyway.
    Fast Sunday was excellent.  All of the speakers were inspiring and fun to listen to.  Choir, however, was cancelled, to my disappointment.
    Today I go to the temple.  The temple here is quite different from the Columbia River Temple, being much plainer in architecture and decoration, and lacking windows in the rooms.  The Spirit is, or course, the same.
    I cannot begin to tell you how much I miss having animals around.  The thought is constantly in the back of my mind that I would love to have a cold nose in my lap or have someone look at me with a “What ARE you doing” sort of look.
    While I have limited my drawing P-day and Sunday, doodles frequently escape. Pumpkins are particularly prominent this week.  Please enlighten me as to what Halloween festivities were engaged in this year.  What did ustedes wear?  What did you eat? Etc.  Many elders switched nametags for the occasion, and proceeded to act like their companion, inducing much amusement.
    The other day in gym, I was talking to Elder Nielson, (who is the other person who frequents choir) about what TV shows we watched as children.  After covering the young shows, we moved to other shows.  This led to me confessing my love of Sailor Moon.  Expecting him to either rebuff or ignore this, I took me almost 20 seconds to realize what he had actually said:” Yeah.  Sailor Saturn was my favorite.”  I was so flabbergasted it took me 10 more seconds to respond coherently.  He then told me that I must never speak of it in the MTC, which I promptly agreed to.
    On a side note one of the speakers on Fast Sunday said this of Isaiah: “I understand about half.  The rest I just love.”  I hope I can have that kind of faith and hope.

Please do:

  • Tell Myr to put my lava lamp back.  Again
  • Post this & all other correspondence to the blog.
  • Ask Myr to post this on BMoG, as well as all other correspondence.
   
All my love,

Hermana Maren M. Jones

Alma 60:6.  Not really.

Videos


Just some links to silly little things the mission did for christmas. I'm not in any, but Myr at least should find them amusing. post them on the blog, too.
 
Mission Slide Show 
Video Christmas Card 1 
Video Christmas Card 2

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Letter Received December 23, 2009



Thing of greatest importance: did you get the brief note about my driving record; have you sent in the paperwork?


Brief guilt message: I've received Christmas photos from both Aunt Sarah and cousin Erika, but I still don't have pictures of the kids in their Halloween costumes. (On the other had, I've not sent any pictures home, either....)


Snow is fun. Sleet is not. And when everyone and their dog have a plow for their truck, the highway gets a little scary.


Had district meeting this past week. The elders are an interesting bunch. Of course, they all live in the same apartment complex, so they know each other much better than we do. (They also have a gym, of which Hermana and I are quite jealous.) We had some fun doing role plays and a white elephant gift exchange. (I received a package of toilet paper, while hermana received a men's shaving kit.) We had lunch together, and went our separate ways.


I've sent gifts home for y'all. They should get there later today or early tomorrow. I hope you enjoy them. As I said in the included letter, I want a full report of the haul this year, especially what santa bequeathed as a family gift. (Pictures would be great!) I beg to differ about the wrapping. You forget how many presents I wrapped last year. I hope Myr has been upgraded to full "elf" status.


(By the way, if that box you sent me is what I think it is, it might be for naught. Yesterday we gave our little Christmas tree away to a family who was going to go without one this year.)


We went caroling Monday night. A less-active family organized it. We and two other families sang to investigators, less-actives, and family friends. We gave away baskets of fruit and cookies, each with a complimentary church video (either 'the nativity' or 'finding Faith in Christ') and a bag of microwave popcorn. Hermana Secrist is very talented with the guitar, and played for the occasion.


We also took the opportunity of having the loaned guitar to write a song. I'll see what I can do about getting it to you.


By the by, Hermana Perez is NOT tall, nor dark-haired. I was standing with Hermana Curtis much of the time, whose companion was recuperating in the MTC from appendicitis. (Both Hermana Perez and Elder Lemkey are rather intimidating people, so I stuck close by; besides, she took good care of me on the plane.) Hermana Perez looks about as Hispanic as I do, and is shorter than I. She has the curly blonde hair. And I did grow to love her, although not in any way I would have expected. She reminds me very much of Mother, at times.


We went to Pizzeria Oro because they allow you to order ahead of time, while most of the others do not. Still, it was great stuff.


I'm still getting used to reading the faces of the Hispanics. While their intonation is very much the same as English, their range of facial expressions is different. This is important, especially when they are reading scriptures, as many times they can't intone while reading. (Although I have been pleasantly surprised by the level of literacy, both in English and Spanish.)


I'm still getting acquainted with the branch. Presidente Urrutia is very active with both Investigators y menos-activos. The Spanish elders and we are having Christmas Eve at his house, and then we're going to another house for Christmas day.


Hope Christmas is great for all of you. Ask Myr if he's organized the children's committee yet, and tell him to send me an email. Also tell him I'm glad he's doing well wrestling, and that I rooting for him from afar. I have much more time to write out here in the field than I did in the MTC. (An hour, as opposed to 30 minutes.)


Sierviendo al Senor con todo mi alma, mente, y fuerza, os doy a vosotros todo de mi amor.


Sincieramente,
La Hermana Maren Jones

Sunday, December 20, 2009

A Quick Note

You will note that I have updated Maren's address. They ask that all mail be routed through the Mission Office. This is to allow greater security for missionaries.

Letter Postmarked 6 Nov 2009



Dear All,

Last week was just too busy.  I’m sorry I didn’t write.

I finally found my immunization record, so you don’t have to worry about it anymore.

I’m not sure what of my e-mail and letters you have received.  Including this, I have sent 3 e-mails and 2 letters.


Hma. Perez makes sure we’re always on time but the elders are still struggling with the short meal times, and are frequently late to class.  This has resulted in a game called “Get There Before the Hermanas,” which frequently sends the elders dashing up the stairs past us, which I find amusing.

I’m enjoying choir a lot.  It is my favorite time.  This week, most of the elders are joining me in choir.  (Hma. Perez, while gifted to play the saxophone, has a rather terrible voice, and she’s quite aware of this.)  The directors are both very talented, and always have uplifting things to say.

We spend one day a week in the Response Center.  There, we make follow-up calls, take inbound calls, and participate in chats from mormon.org.  The other day, I spent half an hour talking to a woman who was looking for a church that would accept her.  She had several obvious tattoos, and while she was not proud of them, they had caused her to be rejected from several churches.  She had a sincere desire to come closer to Christ.  I read her the first vision, and committed her to pray and come to church.

The newest district in our zone has two new sisters.  I’m thrilled and Hma. Perez is happy, too.

I must freely admit that I am not sleeping well.  On a good night, I get 6 to 6 ½ hours of sleep, which has begun to tell on me a bit.  I’m getting help and will let you know what’s happening.

Please Do:

  •     Send my camera cable to the mission office
  •     Publish all mail to the Blog and BmoG (Myr will know how to do this)
  •     Send one of my smallest square Aquabee drawing books. (In the brown portfolio)
  •     ¡Tell Myr to put my lava lamp back!
  •     Publish my various addresses and DearElder to everyone.

    Sincerely,
    Hma. Mären Michelle Jones

Mission Office

Hermana Maren Michelle Jones
Illinois Chicago North Mission
3295 Arlington Heights  IL  60004

In response to father’s letter:

I highly recommend DearElder as the best way to contact me.  I only have 30 minutes online on p-day, so myldsmail is not very practical (and apparently has bounce issues) and while snail-mail will get to me, I am limited to writing letters on p-day.  (Although sometimes I fudge a little on that, using quiet time.)

I gave some details on Hma Perez in my e-mail.  However I did not mention that I am struggling to form a relationship with her, an issue she is aware of and that we are working hard to resolve.  We both work hard to care for each other, but have not developed even a cursory friendship.  Our mission president assures us that as we share experiences, we will build common ground and friendship.   So, to be bluntly honest, I’m not sure there is anything I love about my companion yet.  I am constantly seeking some way I can open up to her and try to respond warmly to her attempts, but as of yet, there is little between us.

I have not included details of my schedule because it is hopelessly erratic.  The teachers are all BYU students, and so teaching is worked in between classes.  There are few constants, which I will list on the back.

Daily (except Fast Sunday)

    6:30 – arise & prepare
    7:00 – breakfast
    12:30 – lunch
    4:30 – dinner

Weekly

    Monday @ 6:00 pm Response Center
    Tuesday                    Saturday
        8:30 – Laundry                6:00 Training Resource
        1:00 – Temple                             Center
        7:00 Devotional
        5:15 – Choir
    Sunday
        4:15 – Choir
        7:00 – Fireside

As you can see, this leaves most of my time in flux.  Personal, companion and language study is planned the night before, but those times change frequently.  Gym time is also different every day.  In short, I flat-out refuse to transcribe my schedule.  It’s just too nuts.

As for spiritual experiences, I have too many in a day, let alone a week, to try and filter.  If one strikes my as significant, I will try to share it, but I’m riding such an emotional high, I’m not sure what’ll come to me.

Last night, however, Elder L. Tom Perry was at the devotional.  It was quite the experience.  The choir (w/me as 1st soprano) sang “Lead Thou Me On.”  I took many notes, and was strongly moved, but I’m not sure I can pull any one thought from it.

On a side note, I began my medication, Trozodone, last night.  I took one 50mg tab and got four (as opposed to the previous night’s 2) hours of sleep.  I’m starting to worry.  I can’t point to any reason I’m not sleeping sound.  I’m not stressed, I’m comfortable, and with the exception of 5:00 am on (when the other sisters begin their rigmarole) the room is quiet and dark.  I will take two tabs tonight and pray for health and rest.

Sincerely, and I miss you too.

Hma. Maren Jones

Postmark 15 Oct 2009



Dear All,

              To give a brief account of my first week, I have managed well enough.  As anticipated, I have spent these past days in a state of moderate confusion, a state that was not helped by the fact that I managed to get a stomach flu on Thursday and Friday.  I received a pair of fantastic anti-nausea pills which helped immensely, and am now quite recovered.

            The food here is richer than I am used to, and does odd things to my digestion.  I’m sure you’ll be thrilled to hear that I am eating breakfast every morning, and that , aside from some awkwardness my first two days, I am sleeping quite well.

            Mi Compañera, Hma. Perez, is a self-motivated and rather serious person, making her my perfect foil.  We get along well, and she takes very good care of me.  (For Myr: she is almost Kyouya to my Tamaki.)

            This Saturday I must be prepared to give 5-minute lessons… en español.  I am barely getting my verbs memorized.  I hope I’ll be ready.

            I’m struggling with everything right now but I have faith that if I persevere, I’ll either succeed or be respectfully dismissed.  Whatever is best.

    (Bad spellers, UNTIE!)

Tell Myr that there is a cream-soda tree here; they have had to rope it off because too many nuevos have been sniffing it.  Elder Nielson, who is in my district, is particularly enamored of the tree and has a stick in pocket as we speak.

            I did my first Referral Center shift yesterday.  You take calls, make follow-up calls, and do online chats (via Mormon.org).  I received no chats, but made several follow-up calls.  I also took one call.  The lady had called the Spanish line, but spoke English.  The difference between what I as saying and hearing and what the script showed was dizzying.  But I managed.

             As I may have mentioned before, I’m struggling, specifically with prayer en español.  Not that the rest of it is easy.  I’m coping by trying not to look to far forward or back, but doing as much as I can to learn right now.  I have faith that as long as I work hard, all will be well.

Yo testifico que el Evangelio is verdadero, y que Jesuchristo es nuestro Salvador, y que El vive.  Yo se que Dios es nuestro Padre Celestial, y que El tiene muchas amor por nosotros, su discendientes.  Digo estes cosas en el nombre de Jesucristo, Amen

P.S.  You may want to investigate a service called:  Dearelder.com  by which you can send me mail for free every day I’m at the MTC.  So can anyone else, for that matter.

PSS  I almost forgot! Please, Please, PLEASE check my immunization record.  There is some confusion about my MMR.  Send me all MMR dates & the dates for Hep A & B (Twinrix)  Love you all:  Maren

Please send my smallest, emptiest Aquabee drawing notebook.

OK, so things in the MTC get written in stages.

We have an awkward situation in our zone:
We have 1 sister who is staying for a few weeks to resolve health issues
We have 1 sister who will show up late
We have 1 sister who never showed.

Until the new sister comes we’re tangled in a series of awkward splits.  It should be worked out as soon as we get 1 more sister, tho.

I have a health interview with the health clinic to check on my insomnia on Thursday.  I should have no issues.

I’m in the MTC choir, and it’s a great experience.  The directors are such great teachers, and singing helps me de-stress.  Hobbies are not nearly as suppressed here as you would think.  Musical talents are encouraged, and there are drawing supplies in the bookstore.



Email Received December 15, 2009


Ok, I was kind of sad not to have an email or snail-mail or anything this week. Not to guilt you or anything.

This has to be brief. I don't have much time.

The city where we live is called Carpentersville. It's a small community, and I'm not exactly sure why it's here. We have a lot of outlying areas in out mission, but with limited miles on our car and very little bus service (each stop only gets hit twice a day) we spend a lot of time close to home.

We share the local Spanish branch with another pair of elders (One of which is a gamer of a flavor similar to mine. Yea!), who cover the Elgin area, and are overlapped by a pair of English elders who are also our district leaders. (No, I'm not sure how that works; there may be another pair of elders I've not met yet.)

As of right now, I'm lucky if I can understand one word in 10 that the investigators say. I have no problem understanding Hermana Secrist, so I'm hoping that I just need to get accustomed to the accent.

I finally fell down the stairs. I strained my neck, and it's taking a while to heal.

Christmas is almost here, so we're planning on going caroling with some members. From what I understand, caroling just isn't part of Hispanic Christmas tradition, so sometimes they don't really understand what to do.

Food is great, salsa is better, and I'm hungry right now.
I miss you all, and wish I could be home for Christmas. I want to see Tegryd open his presents.

Love you all,
Hermana Maren Jones


Saturday, December 12, 2009

Video Sent From Maren's New Mission President


Below is a message to a link to video of Maren arriving in Chicago.  The video was sent by President Sherman Doll.  You can click through to the video in the message or I will embed the video in this post.



Here’s a little video of the arrival of our new missionaries this past week: http://www.vimeo.com/8137227

Thank you letting them serve with us.  We’ll take good care of them.

....................................
President Sherman L. Doll
Illinois Chicago North Mission
sdoll@ldschurch.org

Here is the embedded version.




Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Maren Reaches Chicago!!!



So I'm out in the field now. Not in Chicago proper, but a small community nearby.

The plane ride in was awful, and I got sick. Airline hostess has been permanently stricken from my possible job options. We ended up only delayed an hour, disembarking around 2:30. O’Hare is very big. We only got to see a small part of it, but it took the plane forever to taxi around to our gate. The Mission President, his wife, the three assistants (don't worry, One of them was in training to replace one other, who left for the field today.) and two service missionaries (both older women) met us there, and then took us out for pizza.

Yes, Chicago style pizza is awesome.

After the pizza, the assistants took us on a tour of the area there. While interesting, I must admit that Chicago has no more appeal to me than Salt Lake or Seattle. It's really just another city. Of course, the driving sleet might have detracted from its brilliance. Or something.

We got to the mission home late, (we missed the first train) and soaking wet (from our half hour tour; even my supposedly waterproof gloves were soaked through) and were interviewed by president Doll, who is much more easy-going than I anticipated, as is his wife. We stayed the night there, and received the bulk of our orientation this morning. We met our new companions (My new companion is Hermana Secrest), and I've been introduced to my new apartment. 

About the mail thing, they do not want us using our apartments as addresses, so continue to send things to the mission office. Please use US postal for letters, as those can be quickly forwarded to the correct address. Packages can only be forwarded to me if sent US postal and if I'm living at a member's house. (I'm not. Send the packages however you like.) I will receive packages at zone meetings and conferences.

I'm so sorry about not writing last week. It was my "teaching week.” Classroom instruction was reduced to two hours, with the rest of the time being for MDT (Missionary directed time) or teaching. In a lot of ways, teaching was easier than learning. We did 26 lessons last week, which was one above our goal.

I just want to take a moment and thank you for all the support you've been giving me. All your advice and love help me so much.

Wish you were here.

Hermana Maren Jones

Monday, December 7, 2009

Maren's Leaving For Chicago


A quick note.  Maren will be leaving for Chicago on December 8th.  Due to this we ask that you hold onto any mail until that time.  I will have Maren's mission and new address posted soon.



The Editor

Email Received December 1, 2009



I'm sorry about not e-mailing last week. Things were a little awkward, and I did not have time to get on the computer. (By the way, there are as many computers here as on any modern school campus. I never need to stand in line... although I do have to hunt for an open seat, some days.)

This week is my teaching week. This means that I only get two hours of instruction a day. The rest of the time is spent studying and teaching. On the whole, it's a lot easier than I thought it would be.

I'm sad at the thought of leaving my district. It’s amazing how close we've gotten in so short of a time. They're like my brothers, and I love them all. Only one of them is going to Chicago with us. The others are all headed to Dallas or Fort worth.

The other night, at the fireside, the speaker (current head of MTC national and international operations. I can't just say president because almost all the male staff here have the title of 'president') said that most of the missionaries in the MTC have said that the MTC is the hardest thing they have ever done. I took a moment to think, and decided that this wasn't actually, the hardest thing I had ever done. In fact, my time here in the MTC has been relatively easy, for all of the intensity of it. I'm only studying two subjects, which in practice aren't unrelated; my time is almost entirely planed out for me, which makes life easy; I have a responsible, caring companion who is not afraid to nag me back on task. I do not need to cook, or to care for anyone besides my companion and me.

Now, I know much of this will change when I get to the field, but the fact that this has been so easy concerns me; have I been less than diligent? I have been pushing myself hard; I've learned how to make goals, (not well, but I can do it, which is more than I could say before,) and study independently (fairly well, actually) and how to teach. (I've never been so quiet and pensive in my life!) I'm more organized than I ever believed I could be, and I'm waking up on time every morning. I'm sleeping easily (not that I recognized I had a problem before) and every evening, I have just enough time to organize my thoughts for the next day. But it hasn't been difficult, per say. Challenging, yes. Stretching, certainly. Not difficult. Not hard on my mind or soul.

I'm out of time. Love you all, and hope you are well.

Maren